Wednesday, September 3, 2008

INTRAPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP

KNOW YOURSELF,BEFORE LOVING SELF OR OTHERS
Knowing yourself is the initial mandatory requirement, rather than loving oneself, before you start loving someone else.
To love self or to love someone else, it is essential that one knows oneself well, The knowledge of our strengths, our weaknesses, our capability of adjustments, sharing, cooperation and our ability to accept the others is the basic requirement to start any relationship, We must know the expectations we have, if any, in that relationship and our limitations to go into a relationship with someone superior or less privileged than us, without getting complexes
For this, spending time with oneself and analyzing ones own views are a must. Loving self can follow but only after we know ourselves well and this should be done cautiously, Loving oneself without knowing self can be dangerous. Once we start loving ourselves then it becomes difficult to adjust in most relationships. We are then a bit difficult to accept views of others and even healthy criticism
Men are definitely as emotional as women, if not more, and they should not hesitate in expressing it, provided the expressed emotions are genuine, Fake emotions lead to fake relationships. Even fake and halfhearted acceptances and patches can be dangerous for any relationship. Anger though a common emotion, should not be the only one to be expressed to show possessiveness or hurt
Know yourself, know the other and then get into a relationship. Love will automatically follow, But let knowing self and other be a continuous process, Age, time circumstances and commitments keep changing every individual, and accepting these is essential for continuation of any healthy relationship

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